"Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it’s all a male fantasy: that you’re strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren’t catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you’re unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else. You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur."

Margaret Atwood, The Robber Bride (via monkeyknifefight)

(Source: courcel)

“wise words” or “thoughts on el sexo”

i know these vids are so passé, but whatevs. use more teeth.

When another one of my friends gets a boyfriend

whatshouldwecallme:

it’s fine, spinster castle.

wise words from babe walker

because exes go from this:

to this:

full story here.

#spinstercastle

(if you really knew me as well as you think, you would know better.)

just because.

headed in this direction, however i am allergic…#spinstercastle

no bridget, probably not. maybe a little. but probably you are a smart broad too. you can chill at spinster castle, if you want.

(Source: allieoops)

ok. maybe cory matthews can come to spinster castle. but only for a visit. only for tea. he’s kind of a puss. in a nice way!